I'm 25 years old, with my 2nd partner of a couple of months, my first was 18 months ago. We have just started having sex and he is wonderfully patient with me but there are 2 things that are worrying me: Firstly I can't seem to orgasm, I have masturbated for years and never orgasmed either. I can get to the point fairly quickly but it becomes painful and I 'stop' the feeling and back off. Not sure what to do, tried pretty much everything. Its kind of like part of me doesn't want to 'lose control' or something??
Secondly, when we do have intercourse it is really painful to start. He spends a very long time prepping me and things but it still hurts.
u may be answering your own question so what if u slow down when u get TO THAT POINT and use more lubricant or both insertion and cltioral stimulation both
.. as to your partner preppeing u.. does he get u to where u get yourself.. u can prety much bet he would like to watch
do u like oral sex both u and him
do u have religion objections to casual sex
if all that fails then by all means see Gyno