Ok i've been told that it helps relieve stress but.. Ok maybe i should start out by saying my boyfriend and i got in a HUGE fight almost broke up well did for 14 hours anyways.. i've been stressed for about 2 weeks now because of friends the fight a recent knee injury ect.. ANYWAYs.. i cant seem to get myself um well i cant get myself wet.. i can look at porn this guy i realy likes has been trying and stuff and it get alittle bit but then its like it dries up.. and gets actually painful to masterbate or touch anything.. even my nipples they wont get hard. Is that stress or is there something underlying in this.. its kinda been a worry.. also havent seen my boyfriend in the last 5 weeks so no sex either wondering if maybe thats the cause of it too.. i know it hurt the other night pretty badly when i used my toy.. i was finally actually able to lubricate enough to do that. If anyone can give me some advice