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Ok so im 18, im normal, i just am boy crazy, i always have been just as soon as i graduated high school i really started like going for it... I lost my virginity before I started college to some guy I only knew for one night and it was not a big deal to me but all my friends blew it up and he told all his friends... Now that Im in college I have just noticed how boys look at me which i never saw before, now I have this confidence from the fact that I'm actually wanted... I play with their emotions though, i lead them on and most of the time it gets me into trouble bc then they dont leave me alone... theres only one boy i want and i see him two days out of the week, we kiss, he's fingered me ... and recently we were about to take things farther but he didnt have a condom so we couldnt so we just did what we could in his car... he hardly talks to me when were together if he is talking to me it's usually something either funny which is why i like him but then he says things that are kinda mean... the one thing that bothers me is that he hasnt asked me for my phone number and its been probably over a month since we first met... i dont want or expect anything serious... personally i just want to have sex with him... but for it to be good i actually have to be attracted to him and him treating me worse and worse each week is terrible... what can i say to make him get that if he wants to keep this good he needs to get his act together without sounding like a idiot? and how can i finally get him to ask me for my phone number? PLEASE HELP ME OUT?
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replied October 25th, 2009
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your doing things backwards! if you play games with guys, dont be surprised if someone play games with you. i personally think that this is a bad idea, things sometimes come back on you.

if you want to have casual sex that's fine, but you shouldnt be playing with people's emotions.
i dont understand how this guy got to second base when he doesnt have your phone number.
your moving too fast, slow down!
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replied November 15th, 2009
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Come over my house!

Seriously, playing with people's emotions will make them very angry at you. So I'm not surprised he's dishing it out some.

He probably doesn't trust you given that you attract and want attention from men. He's right! You yourself say that you don't want anything from him other than a good time in bed.

Your dealing with people in a shallow fashion. Maybe you'll think it over after you go through some disappointments.
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replied November 15th, 2009
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You're 18. As long as you protect yourself you have free licence to be as shallow and fast as you want to be. You shouldn't play with people's heads but most every other girl your age is doing the same thing. Like every young woman you need some time to get used to your power before you're going to get a sense of how to be responsible with other people's emotions.

As for this guy if you're tired of being picked on tell him to stop being an ass next time he does it. I'm guessing either he thinks its cute or he's just pushing you to find your limits. If you've asked him for his phone number and he's said no, write him off. There are cute guys the world over that won't make you work so hard to get the things you want.
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replied November 17th, 2009
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do you want him as in a boyfriend or just want to hook up with him? if you want him as a boyfriend then do noooot give him any...most college guys are ready to take advantage of their first year of college and aren't wanting to commit to anything...as for just hooking up with him...if hes being a jerk then find a better guy that isn't going to treat you like crap...obviously if he wanted to give you his number or wanted yours he would have gotten it long ago...
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