I've never had problems with lasting long sometimes, she once gave me a blowjob that lasted 20 minutes. It's weird. I need help.

Do you take any other medications such as an anti depressant daily? I know that can affect the sex drive. And are you horny or in the mood while trying to get it up?

dude.

everything is totally going to be fine. i dated someone once who dealt with something just like this. and believe me, we worked through it.

my advice is.. its kinda like a tool.. if you dont use it.. it gets rusty.

you NEED to jerk off EVERYDAY just so it can get used to working.

please please please do not start taking medication for this before trying everything else first. you are way to young to grow accustomed to the meds.. youre in your prime.

haha thanks guys. I think i just have to get my mind off of it and just do it. i just need to get some sort of ball of sexual energy first

I have the same problem right now. My whole life i have neve had a problem getting and keeping an erection until now. (I am 18 years old now). My girlfriend and i had done everything except sex and i was perfectly fine. The other day we tried having sex for the first time (i was a virgin btw) and i got it up but it just went away a few minutes into it. It might of been because i was nervous but idont know. The problem is now i cannot get an erection at all and it is really bothering me and i dont know what to do..please help

If you can get one normally, but can't when the "main event" comes around, it's nerves. My boyfriend had a bit of a problem our first time, too. It's totally normal. Once you are comfortable and relaxed, you'll get over it. Focus on how wonderful it is to be with her, not about your performance. Focus on how you feel and get out of your head--stop thinking about it. If the girl loves you, she won't care. She'll understand. Don't think she's judging you.

You'll be fine. Stop putting pressure on yourself or thinking that you have ED. You don't.

UM well i have a boy friend..
and he doesn't have a belly button...
and he can never get hard....
and i think he might be a test tube baby.
help me?

You do realize that they don't actually grow them in the test tube, right?