I'm 20 years old, and the guys that I have been with when I've given them head I've been able to fit everything in my mouth fine... and I've seemed to do an alright job... I've got a fair idea of what I'm doing.
I started dating this 26 year old lately, and he's really really big... and wide as well. i lost my virginity when i was 16/17 and sex has never hurt since then, but when I do with him he has to go really slow for quite a while at the start and i am always sore after.
I gave him head for the first time and I couldn't fit all of it in my mouth. part was in my mouth and the rest that i couldn't fit in was the length of my palm!! it just wouldn't all go in... so i was sorta lost as to what to do and how to get him off cause my mouth isn't covering everything...
has anyone ever had anything similar or have any advice?
First of all, does he complain, that all of it doesn't fit? If he doesnt that probably means he doesnt mind.
The thing is, deep-throating is really over-rated, because the most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum(a bunch of nerves behind head of the penis), its a lot more sensitive than the base.
If you focus on that part it sure produce a very pleasurable sensation for him. So don't worry about how much length you can cover, just try to make it as sensual and romantic as possible.
Many people cant deep-throat, especially is the guy is large.
what I suggest is, if you really wanna take more of him in your mouth, that you take it slowly, and try to take more in your mouth each time you go for it, if its even a millimetre more than you usually take, eventually you get used to taking more of him.
As you go deeper, you have to try to ignore your gag reflex at the back of your throat, take it easy, and in time you'll get it.
Place your hand around the base of his penis and your mouth around the top part. That way you extend the coverage of his penis to its full length. Move your hand and mouth together. Just like deep in your your vagina, his penis base is fairly insensitive so it will feel good enough for him. You can add some lube in your hand to make it feel wetter and warmer for him.