So, you don't feel pleasure?

Unfortunately, thats fairly common.
Most women can only really orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

do kegels....stop and start your pee when peeing...also if you want you can use your finger and experiment with the muscles you have down there, then flex them suring sex. i always flex during sex. its fun

thx but i already said fingering an oral doesn't work... Oh and also, during sex, i feel like hes hitting my bladder in a way like when he gets deep i have this uncomfortable feeling like ive git to pee or something like its pressing my bladder

I have the same problem, its not that its not enough lube, its just like i dont have the pleasure nerve endings in my vagina. I might look up those Kegel exercises! My gyno said it was because i have a short vagina, and my boyfriend has a large penis. What he may be hitting is your cervix? That happens to me sometimes and its painful.