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Q: Can't ejaculate while masturbating

asked by: skmike on April 18th, 2008

New User

Ok, I am 20. I lost my virginity a month ago (haven't had sex since, yet), it was great, I had an orgasm and ejaculated yes

. Prior to that day, I had no problems with getting an erection while masturbating but couldn't ejaculate no matter how hard I tried. Despite (or maybe because of) that, I frequently had ejaculated while asleep. So, understandably, I was thrilled when I successfully lost my virginity and ejaculated for the first time. However, I am sad to say that I can't ejaculate again. Its been 30 odd days since, and I tried to masturbate every day, but still couldn't ejaculate, yet I did have a couple of wet dreams.

What's wrong with me? Do I have to go and get laid again to ejaculate? This frustrates me, I should be able to derive enjoyment from masturbation. I want to be able to ejaculate when I want, not while I am asleep. Please help Confused

Replies(10)

griffon

replied on May 14th, 2008

New User

i have this same problem. i could masterbate for 30 mins straight and not ejaculate. I can only recieve an orgasm through intercourse or a wet dream. Also, if i ejaculate too much my penis will swell purple and to twice the girth. if anyone has any insight please reply Mad

hiddenidentity

replied on July 13th, 2008

New User

Similiar problem

i have a similiar problem. i am still pretty young and havent had sex yet. i have masturbated a couple of times but every time it feels like im about to have an orgasm, my ass tightens up real hard, i get a real funny feeling, and then everything just goes away and i dont even feel like masturbating anymore. i get to that point in only a couple minutes. am i doing something wrong?

MikeH90

replied on July 14th, 2008

Experienced User

Re: Similiar problem

hiddenidentity wrote:

how old are you? That sounds like you've had an orgasm,maybe your body isn't producing ejaculate yet.

hiddenidentity

replied on July 20th, 2008

New User

Re: Similiar problem

how old are you? That sounds like you've had an orgasm,maybe your body isn't producing ejaculate yet.[/quote]

im 13 and i started puberty pretty early. i can tell i havent finished puberty quite yet so i think you might be right.

thacks20

replied on May 2nd, 2009

New User

good to know

hey guys im 25 and i thought I was the only one that couldnt masturbate myself to an ejaculation...need something real to get there....whats up with that

AustinCO

replied on August 4th, 2009

New User

I'm having the same problem. I've never been able to ejaculate while pleasuring myself. I plan on starting to have oral sex soon and want to be able to while I'm being preformed on.
I'm 16

DB26624779

replied on October 19th, 2009

New User

I too have this problem. I m 16. I start to masturbate & it feels that something's going to come out. But nothing comes out. Many of my friends have become experts with age. Whats wrong with me?

gigles3151

replied on October 19th, 2009

New User

maybe you're penises only like a womens touch Wink

jcarson

replied on November 9th, 2009

New User

I am a virgin and can get pre-ejaculation while masterbating (without condom), but can't get quite to that point. So im sorta in the same boat. I've been thinking about using some type of lotion or perhaps a condom just to expriment. Perhaps you should try that.

niceone

replied on November 9th, 2009

New User

suggestions

I'm no expert, but maybe you are just getting yourself too worked up...? I have that problem often(I'm a female, though) Anyway, try taking deep breaths and not "trying too hard". Let your mind wander the things that really turn you on, maybe focus on the way her lips look while she's performing oral on you...something like that. (Don't mean to get too personal, just trying to help)

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