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Ok, I am 20. I lost my virginity a month ago (haven't had sex since, yet), it was great, I had an orgasm and ejaculated yes . Prior to that day, I had no problems with getting an erection while masturbating but couldn't ejaculate no matter how hard I tried. Despite (or maybe because of) that, I frequently had ejaculated while asleep. So, understandably, I was thrilled when I successfully lost my virginity and ejaculated for the first time. However, I am sad to say that I can't ejaculate again. Its been 30 odd days since, and I tried to masturbate every day, but still couldn't ejaculate, yet I did have a couple of wet dreams.

What's wrong with me? Do I have to go and get laid again to ejaculate? This frustrates me, I should be able to derive enjoyment from masturbation. I want to be able to ejaculate when I want, not while I am asleep. Please help Confused
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First Helper griffon
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replied May 14th, 2008
i have this same problem. i could masterbate for 30 mins straight and not ejaculate. I can only recieve an orgasm through intercourse or a wet dream. Also, if i ejaculate too much my penis will swell purple and to twice the girth. if anyone has any insight please reply Mad
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replied October 7th, 2013
I am 13 and have been having the same problem. I haven't lost my virginity yet, and have never ejaculated and have been masturbating since I was 10. I've even tried watching porn while masturbating but it hasn't worked. Anyone that could give me info?
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replied July 13th, 2008
Similiar problem
i have a similiar problem. i am still pretty young and havent had sex yet. i have masturbated a couple of times but every time it feels like im about to have an orgasm, my ass tightens up real hard, i get a real funny feeling, and then everything just goes away and i dont even feel like masturbating anymore. i get to that point in only a couple minutes. am i doing something wrong?
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replied August 17th, 2012
I have this same problem after a couple of minutes i feel a really wierd feeling then it stops and i dont even want to continue
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replied July 14th, 2008
Experienced User
Re: Similiar problem
hiddenidentity wrote:
i have a similiar problem. i am still pretty young and havent had sex yet. i have masturbated a couple of times but every time it feels like im about to have an orgasm, my ass tightens up real hard, i get a real funny feeling, and then everything just goes away and i dont even feel like masturbating anymore. i get to that point in only a couple minutes. am i doing something wrong?


how old are you? That sounds like you've had an orgasm,maybe your body isn't producing ejaculate yet.
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replied July 20th, 2008
Re: Similiar problem
how old are you? That sounds like you've had an orgasm,maybe your body isn't producing ejaculate yet.[/quote]


im 13 and i started puberty pretty early. i can tell i havent finished puberty quite yet so i think you might be right.
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replied May 2nd, 2009
good to know
hey guys im 25 and i thought I was the only one that couldnt masturbate myself to an ejaculation...need something real to get there....whats up with that
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replied August 4th, 2009
I'm having the same problem. I've never been able to ejaculate while pleasuring myself. I plan on starting to have oral sex soon and want to be able to while I'm being preformed on.
I'm 16
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replied October 19th, 2009
I too have this problem. I m 16. I start to masturbate & it feels that something's going to come out. But nothing comes out. Many of my friends have become experts with age. Whats wrong with me?
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replied October 19th, 2009
maybe you're penises only like a womens touch Wink
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replied November 9th, 2009
I am a virgin and can get pre-ejaculation while masterbating (without condom), but can't get quite to that point. So im sorta in the same boat. I've been thinking about using some type of lotion or perhaps a condom just to expriment. Perhaps you should try that.
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replied November 9th, 2009
suggestions
I'm no expert, but maybe you are just getting yourself too worked up...? I have that problem often(I'm a female, though) Anyway, try taking deep breaths and not "trying too hard". Let your mind wander the things that really turn you on, maybe focus on the way her lips look while she's performing oral on you...something like that. (Don't mean to get too personal, just trying to help)
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replied December 15th, 2012
I'm 13 and whenever I do it, I feel it about to explode, but then no sperm...is it a disease? I just started puberty too..
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replied December 15th, 2012
I'm 13 and whenever I do it, I feel it about to explode, but then no sperm...is it a disease? I just started puberty too..
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replied January 22nd, 2013
ok,i am 18....i also can't ejaculate while i am doing mastrubation(moving skin up n down of the penis).wen i had sex also i can't ejaculate.but i can ejaculate and can an orgasm of i am mastrubation in an odd way like lying in bed ,chest towards bed.n putting penis b/t thigs n bed den lightly kicking in bed.this i es easy n make orgasm very soon.
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replied May 2nd, 2013
limp !**@!
i am freaking out i m 19 and have been able to cum alot but the past 5 days i dont even come close. and i get hard stay hard but cant cum. i tried for 2 goddamn hours then gave up cuz i never masterbated longer than an hour without an orgasm and ejaculation. can any one help me out here im kinda worried
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replied June 25th, 2013
Hi, I am a 16 year old kid who is having trouble while masturbating. I dont know how far through puberty I am, but I know for sure that I started much later than all my mates at school. I am feeling probably just under half way through it, but yeah, not sure. I try daily, and I just cant do it. Still a virgin, so havent had any sexual experiences yet :/ And yeah, basically just want someone to help and give some advice or something. Cheers.
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replied July 19th, 2013
Hi guys, most of you are really young. You may or may not have delayed ejaculation. Guide To Getting It On by Paul Joannides is a great resource and will be able to point you in the right direction.
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replied August 10th, 2013
I'm 14 and hit puberty 2 years ago but no matter how hard I try I can't
EjacuLate. I've tried lotion, lube , everything. I just can't cum. Plz hlp
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replied August 23rd, 2013
Ejaculation plz help
Same issue
I'm 14 and have been ejaculating for 2 years I've have no problem and now after I've been on holiday and broke my arm I have have problems ejacutating about and a half and still struggling to get a orgasm
This might be short term , long term I need help
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replied August 31st, 2013
Sexual Feeling
i'm 15, and lost my virginity about a month ago. My now ex-girlfriend was on birth control the 2nd, and 3rd time, so I didn't really worry about pre-cum, which means no condom. I have masturbated since I was 7, even though I could not ejaculate, I liked the feel, and didn't fully understand it. But, ever since the last time I had sex (about 2 weeks and some odd days), I have tried masturbating, and have not even been able to get to the point of an orgasm without cum. I just feel nothing, but get hard without even trying. Is my penis just used to the vaginal feel, even though I have only had sex 3 times?
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