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I am a 26 yrold man in good health. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and we have great sex but I can't seem to climax. I don't have a problem getting an erection but I can't ejaculate and I eventually get tired and lose that too.
I can come when I masturbate but not with any other kind of stimulation.
As well as this being very frustrating for me, my girlfriend says she is frustrated and thinks it reflects on her performance (which it doesn't).
I don't know if there is something basic I can do to help e.g. diet change etc or if there is an underlying problem that I should be concerned about.
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replied May 12th, 2009
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No, this is your mind working against you...You have taught yourself to let go only with you being your own special lover...Now you must let your mind be free...When you are hot and ready to jack off then have your girlfriend talk dirty to you...Tell her to let it all hang out...You know, "you hot stud...Give me all the cum in your big ****...Stir it around me...Let it loose...Fill my ***** and **** my brains out"....This should help...Sure works for me....Not my usual Sunday school talk, but so goes life....

Caroline
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replied May 12th, 2009
Without wanting to give too much away, I can be fairly certain that that doesn't work too well when we are together. It's good on the phone but once again thats when I'm in control.
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replied May 12th, 2009
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I can understand every word that you are saying...Took me long enough to get it out, yet saying this, it became one of the catalysts' in turning my husband around and off Viagra...You know, the woman turns into the Sex Queen.... Very Happy

OK, go another route...Think it in your mind...Look on her as a hot babe...Think these words as you sock it to her...Just may help.....I guess every once in a while I show my true colors.. Embarassed but I hide behind a computer....Hey good luck....

Caroline
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replied November 26th, 2012
can't quiet get there
I am in my 50's and of course my age is a factor, I understand that part. I want sex all the time but can't maintain an erection for more than 20-30 minutes and usually get tired before I reach orgasm.
I have tried to get my girl to talk and become more demonstrative but she says she can't talk when she's having multiple orgasms. She really comes hard and enjoys it but I can't seem to finish the job for me.
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