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recently my boyfriend cant ejaculate while we are having sex. His penis is in erection stage and can be hard for a very long time, but in the end he cant come (or it takes at least an hour). I dont know what to do, could it be more of mind problem? because before he was coming very fast, so he started telling him self that he cannot come, and now he seriously cant.
Please if you have any suggestions, contact me

Regards Liddia
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replied March 7th, 2010
Hi there, thank you for posting your question on Ehealthforum. Please remember that this is not intended as a substitute to visiting your own doctor. If your boyfriend is worried about his health, he should talk to his doctor.

Ejaculatory incompetence or delayed ejaculation is complex. Usually the man does not have the same difficulty when alone and masturbating but, for some reason finds it very difficult to finish when his penis is inside his partner’s vagina.

Perhaps you may need to discuss this with a Sex Councillor. It can be resolved through behavioural therapy. Ask him how he masturbates, and to hold your hand while you do it for him. You should also verbally encourage him to come. Once he learns how to ejaculate in your company you can then move on to intercourse.

This will take time and patience and there may be some setbacks. But with perseverance you will succeed. It is very interesting how all this started.


Dr Andrew Rynne.

www.andrewrynne.com



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