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Q: can't cum with oral

asked by: Jilly89 on November 20th, 2008

New User

Hi,
So, my boyfriend and I have been sexually active for about 4 months now, and he is the only person I've ever been with and Im 19, and i love when he gives me oral, but I can never reach orgasm. It's really frustrating for both of us because he feels guilty when I give him oral and he cums.

What am I doing wrong? Is there something I could do? It feels really good when he does it, but the feeling just like plateaus and never goes anywhere and I feel awful after a while and make him stop, or he stops.

Please help!

Replies(3)

unnamedny

replied on November 20th, 2008

Experienced User

I read somewhere that some girls before certain age (about early 20
s) might have difficulties getting an orgasms. I don't remember the reason, but I think it has to do with physiology.

Jilly89

replied on November 20th, 2008

New User

I can orgasm though, just not when he gives me oral. I have orgasmed before when I was on top and was grinding against him, and sometimes just with him playing around with clothes on I can. But never with oral and I would really like it if I could!

Maddie34

replied on November 21st, 2008

Moderator

Is it that he's not stimulating your clitoris enough then?
Maybe suggest he use his hands while doing oral.

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