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Q: Can't cum with masturbation
asked by: tinabaa on January 8th, 2009
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I don't know. It's all just so strange to me.

First I was worried that one labia minora was bigger than the other, but I read somewhere it was normal.
But the clitoral hood and the skin of the labia minora is really weird. Like if I pull on it, it stays where I pulled it. O__o are vagina's supposed to be "moldable"..?

Then I was concerned because ..well I was wondering if it was normal that I can't make myself come. I am a virgin, and ...was curious... so tried masturbating, and its pleasurable I guess but I just can't seem to get there.
I'm not worried persay about that,
but I'm concerned that I'll never be able to, even WITH a guy...
isn't it supposed to be easier to do it yourself? .
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dianna25
replied on January 14th, 2009
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ok so i wouldnt mind some info myself on this, i can do it myself but i cannot through intercorse, im 25 and its NEVER happened for me, its buggin the hell out of me, whats wrong with me???
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VAola
replied on January 16th, 2009
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Being moldable is fine, like if you stretch you "lips"-ugh gross word-its okay if it stays that way for a little bit.

For reaching orgasm, It's often mostly about comfort level. I know this answer might be frustrating, but i believe that if you go through sexual experiences, starting from your initial reaction to sex and how others have impacted your view on it-your parents relationships, siblings, previous encounters and love's. And I also believe once your comfortable in your own skin your already half "there" (haha)

diaries work wonders when it comes to personal growth, It's like a $1 therapist.

Hope this helps! Smile
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