I have what I consider to be a pretty serious problem as far as my relationship is concerned.
I can only achieve orgasm from behind (doggy style). I donât have any sort of ED that I can tell, I just seem to be desensitized enough that other positions donât work. This didnât start off as an issue, but my wife has been making it increasingly clear that sheâs been missing the intimacy of âhaving her man on top of herâ. From what I can tell, I need pressure at the base of the penis, which is tough with other positions. There may be other positions that allow deep penetration, but I need to make missionary work.
I havenât been able to find any medical term that describes my problem, or any recommended steps I can take to âretrainâ myself to missionary. Iâm considering a c**k ring, and plan to swear off having sex the other way until Iâm literally backed up enough that I can orgasm missionary. Iâm hoping that over time, I can get acclimated if I deny going the other route.
Is there anyone out there that can point me to some help on this subject, or has conquered a similar problem?
maybe you just like the idea of a doggie-position, why not try some others like wheel barrow or lotus, it's a nice sex position, can even erect you hard. you see my wife love also spooning positions. we tried a lot of positions when we loose our appetite for sex. it is also one way to keep your libido hi buddy...
Try not using doggie for awhile, like you said eventually you will pop missionary. It can be hard to get good long strokes in missionary because it takes so much work for the guy to do it right. Try putting a pillow under her butt to get a better angle.