I just want to give everyone a heads up before they read this because some might not find it appealing.
I understand everyone has a fetish, something that turns them on. I'm straight and I've never been molested or anything like that when I was little or ever. But for some reason licking a females butt hole turns me on a lot. I can't explain what it does to me it's just a feeling as if all of my adrenaline is up along with my sex drive. Whenever I watch pornos that mainly what I look for. I found this out in high school when I did it on accident and me and the girl talked about it and I continued. After that I love doing it. I understand that there is a lot of bacteria in that area so I always make my partners shower before I do that. But it's always something hard to bring up while dating because some dames might find it disgusting.
So my question to you guys is where exactly does liking this come from and is this okay? It feels very mental and sexual at the same time.
Seeing this a Men's part of the Forum I guess you can call us anything you want....I just threw in my thoughts on the words that I found offending.....I hope I didn't offend you...Very truthfully, I didn't realize which Forum it was when I posted....I will watch this more carefully next time...
As a woman I would and do consider this act very erotic....However, it would just be a part of the preliminary play in sexual relations prior to having sex...It would not turn me on to have a steady diet with this being the main course...
Nah, because this is a men's forum, we need to be extra careful to ensure guys do not feel too comfy to say offensive things. Gotta stop misogyny where ever it rears its head. Like racism... It is not OK if it happens in an all black, all white, all Asian forum.
the only thing i have to say about it is that I enjoy kissing and such during intercourse and I cant say that after that sort of thing I'd be ready to go into a full on make out session...but if its something you and your partner both enjoy then I guess different things work for different people
Technically speaking, there are obvious risks...transfer of parasites being the most serious. Luckily, in the US these risks are very, very low. That being said, I too find the same rush and excitement engaging in this activity. And it has increased with age. At 50 years old, I can say it's almost at fetish status with me. But I never thought it odd, as most of the ladies I've been with have enjoyed receiving it almost as much as I enjoyed doing it. All of my life I have viewed this fascination as a psychological reaction to growing up the son of a plumber. This may sound like I am joking here, but I am not. Growing up, being around equipment that cleaned out drains and toilet clogs, I developed an irrational fear of what I called "people dirt." So much so, when my dad died, I did not take over his company. I never wanted to be a plumber due to people dirt. So. a million dollar company fizzled to nothing. Why am I writing this? Because the act of rimming a woman's anus is somehow a release... a release from my personal fears perhaps. Raised Catholic, sex was always viewed as "dirty." So, in my mind...I think on some subconscious level.. I am thinking, "Let's get really dirty!" Oddly, for me, that does not mean anal penetration. To me, this is disrespectful to a woman, and a signifier of male dominance, which I have have no interest in. I have no desire to dominate a woman...just enjoy her. And especially enjoy smelling and licking her back side!