Q: Busy Boyfriend, tough time in relationship
asked by:
Skater
on November 16th, 2008
New User
Hi. I've been with my bf for nearly a year now and up until now everything has been so simple. Last year he was a senior in highschool and I was a junior. We saw eachother at school and hung out on the weekends. He left for a month over the summer to go visit his family in Ukraine and when he came back we were even stronger than before which tells me that I love him and that distance doesn't change it. This year has gotten hard for me. He is going to a community college and working full time from 9pm to 8am. Our lives are complete opposites now. While I am living my life he is alseep all day. I'm trying to get used to it, but I'm very sad. We see eachother maybe 4 hours a week becuase we hang on Sunday evenings after he catches up with school. I stay in on fridays and saturdays to get my homework done so that I can see him on Sunday, but sometimes he has so much homework that only 3 or 4 hours is possible. I love him so much. Is there any advice on what i can do to get used to this? It feels like a long distance relationship and we only live 20 min away from eachother. He's just so busy, I feel like I've been left behind.
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