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Hey everyone,

I know your thinking, its the oh so popular "Sex doesnt feel good" Topic. Im 19 and I have had multiple sex partners but always used a condom. Ive never been crazy about sex because its never felt good to me. Ive had many guys tell me Im very tight. Which is a turn on to them.. but it can be painful for me at times. Depending on how large the man is depends on the pain. I dated a guy that was quite small and most of the pain went away. Im now dating a guy who is 'average' and sex doesnt really hurt like it did before, and ive found lube def. makes a difference when I cant get wet. But I dont feel any sort of pleasure from it. and ive found I cant have sex for a long period of time because I get "raw" It starts to have this weird burning sensation and I just grit my teeth and close my eyes. I can masturbate, and I can get myself to cum - from my clit(my bf can aswell). Im getting fed-up with it because my bf is very sex-driven and I could live without. I wish i craved it. We try different sex positions and some def feel worse then others. Ive prolly had sex about 20 or so times... Im hoping that if i keep it up.. It will start to feel better. Ive tried exploring myself...Ive never came from my g-spot. Ive never been able to stimulate it..it just.. doesnt exist. Anyone wanna trade? Smile

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replied May 11th, 2009
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i had sex for a long time and if your not wet the whole time it can be painful, especially if the guy is really big.
make sure your not allergic to latex or semen. i m not a doctor so i can only guess.
research the search engines on sex dysfunction for women. i dont know what to tell you about how you never enjoyed sex and you had multiple partners. usually you can have one bad guy, and another one that rocks your world.
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replied May 16th, 2009
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yea
i noticed that too. i have a man who a little on the bigger side and sometimes esspecially before my period strats my vagay gay gets really dry and it hurts to have sex like it hurts just in the front vaginal walls and when he goes deeper in it feels better but then if i get wet then it usually doesnt hurt anymore... its probably the cause of friction!
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replied June 20th, 2009
I have the exact same problem, actually. Sex driven, averages-sized boyfriend and that raw feeling which is so frustrating. That elusive g-spot...maybe maybe we should both try a few completely different poses and/or get the bf to try more fore-play to get more of the natural lubrication going.
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replied June 20th, 2009
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burning after intercourse website that may explain why

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/pelvicpai n/a/painfulsexualin.htm
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replied June 20th, 2009
why r u worried i like the burnin sensation. It feels sexy and makes me excieted. My boy friend and me love it rough.n Just try the doggir position, and the the rockin horse position the burnin sensation is brilliant. i have it 3 time a day 1 in the night 1 in the swimmin pool and 1 in the backgardentry to enjoy the burnin senastion
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replied June 20th, 2009
please rply on wat u think about my mostv recent measage
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replied June 21st, 2009
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she said she has a raw feeling every time she has sex. than just sounds painful!
she should rule out her being allergic to latex, and change to lambskins.
she need to rule out infections.
she might be fine! who knows!
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replied July 6th, 2009
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jyhtgfrdews wrote:
why r u worried i like the burnin sensation. It feels sexy and makes me excieted. My boy friend and me love it rough.n Just try the doggir position, and the the rockin horse position the burnin sensation is brilliant. i have it 3 time a day 1 in the night 1 in the swimmin pool and 1 in the backgardentry to enjoy the burnin senastion



just to post a reply to your comment like you asked....
i think that this wasnt the right topic for you to post in, its cool that you enjoy it but this poor girl really doesnt and she needs to know that shes not by herself in not likeing that sensation.... but then again maybe it is the right post for you lol!
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replied August 26th, 2009
i have a painful burning during sex. I used to have a sex drive but it has slowly dwindled. I think it might have something to do with the burning sensation. You could have some sort of infection or disease. from my symptoms and from heredity i have a good chance at having a disease called endometreosis wich can cause you to be infertile. you should talk to your gyno.
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replied August 28th, 2009
maybe it's the condoms you're using..same thing happened to me, it would burn every time and we realized it was the type of condoms we were using. switch up the condoms & maybe you'll feel better.
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