What you are describing sounds like perianal warts. These are caused by a virus from the herpes family. When you use the restroom and put pressure on yourself, sometimes they "flare" like a hemorrhoid. Can burst and bright red blood will appear in the stool or on tissue paper. I saw these on a poster in my Dermotologist office this past week, that and I go to church with her....so I have kinda learned soem things. These can be frozen off in a dermo office. I know it must be embarrassing, but you could have your gyno doctor look and have them recommend a dermotologist. I am so glad mine is female. SOmetims they will srhink, but they can and will spread. You may very well HAVE to go and have them taken care of. Until then, I'd suggest getting vitamin E capsules (can get them @ Dollar Store) prick the capsule and rub some of the oil onto the spot. This sure makes my hemorrhoid feel better! Hope this has helped some. Not even positive that this is what you have, but I did try to answer!