When have you been diagnosed with bruxism?
Do you feel facial and tmj pain?

Ive never been diagnosed with bruxism. I just figured thats what it was cause its the only logical answer. Yes I do have facial and tmj pain.

You are right about your conception.
Clenching or grinding your teeth (bruxism) puts pressure on the muscles, tissues, and other structures around your jaw. Bruxism is the most common factor causing TMJ disorders.
Temporomandibular disorders can come in different forms, basically is a problem when you either experience pain and/or a loss of jaw function.
Do you usually get headache at the temples, sometimes with related pain in the neck, face, and even in the back?

no, just really in the face and head. It just feels like a dull ache in different spots in my head.

Those that suffer from TMD have an improper jaw-to-skull relationship caused by malocclusion (a bad bite). This “bad bite” can be caused by excessive wearing down of teeth due to clenching or grinding of the teeth (bruxism).
TMD is disrupting the balance of the muscles associated with the jaw and skull and these muscles become irritated and overly active eventually leading to muscle fatigue and spasms. Muscles that are excessively fatigued and spasming can be very painful.
Head and/or scalp painful to the touch is also one of the symptoms of TMD.

Are you planning to visit a dentist or specialist for TMD soon?