Hey, I had sex for the first time last week. I'm 16 about 5'6 and 9 stone. My boyfriend is 16, 6ft and quite slim but I don't know what weight he is. During sex I didn't feel pain untill 2 days after when I started leaking this discharge. I had a pain in my abdominal area and still do slightly. I don't know if my hymen actually broke or only tore a little but it's making me panic. I'm young but on the pill and he wore a condom. Help me please. <3
There are multiple things that can cause the pain, one of the more common ones is when your cervix gets bumped by his penis. It can get bruised and be very sore after a while. Basically every time you move and your cervix touch a vaginal wall, you will feel pain. It will heal and just go away by itself.
Take an NSAID pain killer (non steroidal anti-inflamatory) and see if it will help (Most pain killers are NSAID's today, look on the box/bottle for the letters. These are the same type you take for period pain and cramps. If it does not get better, you will have to see your doctor.
Where the hell did you get your medical knowledge?! The only way to make sure that you will absolutely not become pregnant is through abstinence. There are plenty of children concieved even with multiple types of birth control in use at the same time. Secondly they recommend taking an oral contraceptive for more than a month before it is considered effective.