(P.s I posted this before but not quite
sure yet on how to delete a post . . .)
I'm really confused and need some insight
on this situation.
He broke up with me just a month ago and
we decided to be friends. We saw each
other atleast once a week about 3/4 after
the break-up even though things were a bit
akward-he would look away while speaking
to me which isnt really his character-we
would say hello to each other and chit
chat for a while.
The last time I saw him I didnt feel to
well so instead of chatting for a while I
began to head home. I was stopped though
by a friend of ours who I lent a CD. He
asked me if he should bring it to me today
and while I thought about it, he (my ex)
stepped forward and said he will after I
watch it. But this time he made direct eye
contact and spoke with a smile (the way a
guy talks to a girl he likes)
I was surprised when my friend told me he
was outside and he was there with him too.
(Its a 3 minute drive from his house if he
gets stopped at a light) And I figured
even if he did come along for the drive,
he didnt have to walk him to the gate from
the sidewalk. It doesnt take two people to
hand me a cd. I was even more surprised
when after taking the cd from my friend
that he held his arms open and gave me a
hug.
I didnt want to take it as more than it
was and jump to conclusions but then when
he began to message me just to say hello,
I figured it meant more. Then by the end
of the week he told me I was annoying
(because even though he messaged me to say
hello he would ignore me when I said
hello)
Someone said he trying to tell me
something by that hug and that he was just
trying to mess with me by calling me
annoying (our friend told me to ignore
that and dont take it personal he was
having a tantrum most likely that day . .
.)
The hug really re-opened a few feelings I
have for him and I'm very confused on what
he feels or is trying to tell me. I really
miss him and dont want to look like an
ediot if I decide to tell him so.
Any advice will help - thank you
