I'm young, but I believe you should have faith in yourself. If you truly believe he is unreliable and that you deserve better than what he's put you through, then you should try to get over this guy.

However, if you really love him, and you know that asking for him back would not push him away more, then you should catch him.

But in an outsider's eyes, it would seem that if he is so willing to just leave like that, you obviously are not the top priority on his list.

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thank you for your quick response

I have a son and he doesn't need to be put through all that either.
I made a mistake letting him into my son's life too soon and now I will know for next time.
My son loved this guy,thought the world of him and this guy said the same thing about my son.
Now I know better and my son and I will move on and be happy with just the two of us.

in my opinion it is good for a kid to get exposed to it just make sure they recover from it then they can get exposed to it again, it will make their mind strong.

in my early 20's when i was dating, i never really put a man in my son's face unless i knew he was going to be around for a while. at that time guys would come and go.
the response that he gave it sounded like he was hurt in his past badly and he's carrying that hurt around.

i woundnt bother to call him, you are a princess and you need to be with someone who is going to cherish you. if you call him and he comes back, he's going to hurt you again.
another piece of advice is be a private detective when it comes to the guys you let in your life. if you are careful with the kind of guys you let in your house, your protecting your heart from being hurt.

for example i've been hurt alot and i look at my past and i ignored the warning signs guys give, and in the end i wind up hurt.