Hi,

I've recently broke up with my girlfriend of 4 months. 2 weeks after this i still thought i had made the right decision, saw her at a party and even then didn't want her back. During this time she kept texting me and saying she missed me and i learnt from friends she wanted to get back with me but through this i still thought i had made the right decision.

Now its been a month after the break up and i can't stop thinking about her. I've phoned, text her and everything to tell her how i feel about her, how im sorry, how i want to make things work again and how this time away from her has made me relise how much i need her. Everytime i do this she says she misses me but she has moved on. Everytime i think i'm getting somewhere she says she doesn't want to get hurt again or we can just be friends. Now i've learnt she is seeing a new lad. I feel i need to do something before they get too serious, as bad as that sounds.

Is there any advice on how to deal with this situation and get her back? She's told me even her parents think getting back with me is a good idea. I think she has it in the back of her mind but being with this bloke keeps that thought locked away.

My heart is aching, i think about her all day. I know i've hurt her but i want her to know it will never happen again and that if she gets back with me things would be different. It is so ironic that i get rid of her and i move on and she doesn't and now weeks later its totally turned around! Please help im going crazy at the moment as im sure many of you have experienced.

I really will appreciate any help and time you can spare.

Thank you

A