hi. i have a question regarding breaking virginity...the first time i had sex with my hubby, he penetrated, i felt pain and a little blood, we stopped as i couldnt continue,the second time, he fingered me,then he pushed his penis a little, i was bleeding a lot and it sores though he didnt penetrate much,we stopped immediately, and the 3rd time, as we wanted to start, i saw some spot,, so stopped. is it due to hymen break, or infection? should i see a doctor? or should i try again. i have to mention that all these happened in 3 days, and i stopped as soon as i felt pain or i saw blood, also, the pain and blood didnt continue. i would be thankful for ur adive
Hi, and thanks for your medical question on eHealth forum!
This pain and bleeding is probably due to breaking of hymen. Give yourself a day or two to heal. The increase the foreplay slowly and let your husband first finger you and stimulate you well and then try insertion as he has been probably doing. Also you relax as after the first time of successful penetration it will be enjoyable. If still the problem persists consult a gynecologist. Hope this helps. Take care!
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