Break up or stay together

There is probably a very good explanation for the accident. Couldn't hold it any longer? Maybe a bladder infection? Laughed or sneezed too hard?, etc...

Have you two discussed this?

~Zig

Oh, I'd like to hear that story!

Is there anything to "break up" if you've only gone out one time?

I posted it in "Emotional Turmoil". I have been diagnosed with an over active bladder. If and when I get an urge to go I have about 5-10 seconds and then I start to wet alittle bit then the pressure increases and I cant stop it. I just dont know how to tell people, my girlfriend didnt react too well to it, and I am at a loss.

Hey did you talk to a doctor about it?

I believe there are pills for that.

-Peter

Yes I have, he pescribed some meds but they dont seem to be working, I have tried other medications as well so i think it is something I just have to live with but Im not sure how.

Curious, who dx'd you with an over-active bladder? Urologist or your family doc? What test(s), if any were done or were you given this dx based on symptoms alone?

Generally if a person truly has an overactive bladder and medication that is designed just for that purpose and does not work, then something else is going on.

If I woke up in your shoes, I would find a good urologist and get to the bottom of the problem.

~Zig

I agree with zig, go to the Urologist. This is not something you should lived with.

You know I had a stomach problem once. I kept throwing up at the most random time. The doctors told me it was ulcer, bacteria infection, etc. It took me 12 years but I have finally gotten to the bottom of it and now my stomach troubles me no more.

You can do it, just keep trying and I am sure you'll get to the bottem of it.

Good Luck,

Peter

I have been to the urologist, and he did xrays and he said he couldnt find anything wrong. He told me It could be psychological hence the fact I that I tend to have more accidents when I am nervous, or anxiety, or when I think about it. And I couldnt help but think about it when I was around my girlfriend.