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Q: Boyfriends Insecurties
asked by: littlelindylou on October 1st, 2009
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k so my boyfriend and i broke up this summer for nearly 2 months. we still remained friends and talked all the time. During that time i was with another guy named "Max" , hes very nice, charming and funny. Hes got a great personality, and a great body. and he made me feel very special.We had our fling during the summer and he called it quits. At first i was devastated , but now its become a mutual thing. Me and max still remain friends, hes also pretty tight with my mom so he comes over to hang out with both of us. My boyfriend knows that me and max had a sexual relationship. He claims to know that nothing would happen, that i would never cheat. And i never would cheat on him, i care about him to much. every day he asks me if max was over, or if ive talked to him . Infact today he called and randomly asked if max slept over. I try to understand that he may not exactly be thrilled with the fact that me and max are friends and that we sometimes hangout, ive tried to see it through his persepctive. Its not that i mind that he asks about him, but its constant, all the time questioning me. I feel like im not trusted, i feel like im doing everything wrong even though i know im not. I havent thought about cheating on my boyfriend, max hasnt attempted or even hinted about it. We are strictly friends, thats all we both want from eachother. i tell my boyfriend these thngs, but it doesnt seem to matter, and each day it gets worse and worse.
Im at my wits end. ive run out of ideas, and im just about ready to give up.
so please, HELP ME, give me some advice,
what should i do? or should i just leave him??
PLEASE HELP.
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J3nnyuk
replied on October 4th, 2009
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hey hun, i think you need to sit your bf down and explain to him that things cannot go on like they have been, tell him that there is absolutly nothing going on with max and he needs to stop quizzing you every day because it is driving you away, maybe suggest he comes round when max is there to chat to him and get to know him, i dunno if that is something that you would want..but defiantly explain it stops here or you will have no alternative but to end the relationship..good luck...jenny
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