why does a man want to get a woman pregnant before marriage? My boyfriend asked me for a baby and i think it's too soon. He already expressed his feelings and I told him i need more time. I want to have a baby but there's other factors that I wont right now. We were deployed in iraq, i came back with medical problem including psychological and he did too. I want our relationship to get stronger but he has tried several times to get me pregnant. it doesn't make sense. I love him, but i want to make thing right, so does him. I just don't see why he wants that to happend. Most of the time the female wants to trap a man by getting herself pregnant to hold him not the guy trying to get the woman pregnant. I need especially men opinions, 'cause i know women think different than men, let me know, THANKS!!!!