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Q: Boyfriend is different around friends
asked by: xpaigebx on May 26th, 2009
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I have started to notice that around his friends and at school he is not as affectionate. He will be all close to me and hold me and kiss me and hold my hand and all the other good things that couples do but when we get around his friends he does not want to kiss or hold me, he still holds my hand but It makes me feel bad that he does not want to kiss me in front of his friends. Is he afraid they will make fun of him or something? Please help me out just tell me what you think is going on. and Guys I know you can help because you think like a guy!! Thank You.
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ServiceU
replied on May 26th, 2009
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sounds like he's a young guy, this maybe typical, the kind of person i am i would sneak a kiss and that would be it. as if i m saying "if your afraid of your friends going to tease you then, here let it be over with".

it could be other reasons, some people are peer-pressured with somethings. they might've made jokes about him being whipped and he doesnt want to appear that way in front of his friends.
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worrywart01
replied on May 28th, 2009
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how old is he? he's probably still insecure around his friends and afraid they'll make fun of him...this typically has to do mostly with age
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MyrahU
replied on May 28th, 2009
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Some people aren't very comfortable with seeing other people's PDAs. He may not care if it's people he doesn't know, but around his friends, maybe he thinks it will make them uncomfortable.

I mean, haven't you ever been around a friend and her boyfriend who won't stop being touchy-feely? Doesn't that make you a little uncomfortable, especially if your boyfriend isn't there? I'm not saying you guys would start full-on making out, but even a little kissing and cuddling isn't always appropriate around other people.

You might also consider that not being overtly affectionate makes you more part of the group, rather than his tag-along girlfriend.
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thoumas
replied on May 29th, 2009
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hey, i have been through that. the guy (if he is like me) probably isnt ashamed of you in anyway but he just doesnt want to seem soft in front of his friends. if he isnt a tough guy it might also just be that he hasnt had that many girlfriends so he is insecure.
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