Me and my boyfriend love eachother dearly, but he is the bigest flirt ever. he constantly flirt with girls and tell me it's no big deal, it's just if they say something of course your going to say something back. when i would do some innocent flirting with a guy, wow he gets mad, and jealous and tell me don't do it again he really don't like that. so i said ok. i won't do it again baby. then when he get online he flirt with all these girls, and say what he like in them, and they tell him what they would do to him, then when i get mad or jealous he beg me to forgive him and constantly appologize and say he won't do it again. then what do u know..he does it again, n again, n again. then when i get mad and say if i was having that deep sexual conversation how would u feel? then he say this 1 line that really piss me off "guys and girls r not the same thing" "if i do it, it's kind of harmless and people would shrug it off" "but if you do it, people would think ur a hoe,or a bad girl who is probably a cheater ect..." so what do i do? how can i get him over this idea, and that even if what he says is true, is not an excuse to keep doing something i do not like? is it just a guy thing and im over reacting, or am i right in a way?