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Q: Boyfriend impotent ?

asked by: lilbit93babez on February 12th, 2009

New User

well, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now and its always been great. But for the past 5 or 6 days he can barely get hard or sometimes not at all. He could get hard for a minute or two but then he just goes soft again. Sometimes he doesnt go soft until he tries to put it in. I try to do things like give him a blow job or massage him with my hand and sometimes it works, but only for a few short minutes. Sometimes it doesnt do anything. How can a guy get a blow job and not get up??? need advice!!! I want to be able to have sex with him again.

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lilbit93babez

replied on February 13th, 2009

New User

add to above

I also think it might be me.....he gets up sometimes when we kiss or make out but when he sees me naked or we are just about to have intercourse he flakes up and gets soft....need advice??? is it me??

deteragram

replied on February 14th, 2009

Supporter

It sounds like he needs to get a physical. There are a lot of health problems that can cause erectile dysfunction such as unrecognized diabetes, high blood pressure, atherosclerosis (narrowing of arteries), high cholesterol, and obesity. Certain medications can cause ED and age may be a factor as well.
And, obviously, if he has recently had sex or masturbated, he may not be able to sustain an erection.

anon_man

replied on February 17th, 2009

New User

I have that problem

Is he on any new meds?

JavaMissus

replied on February 25th, 2009

Moderator

Re: add to above

lilbit93babez wrote:

Bingo: In my opinion, you just came up with the right answer....Personally, I do not think that getting hard has anything to do with many of the facts of life that they say it does....But this is only me.......

Caroline

Rosie H

replied on February 25th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

are there other problems going on between the two of you?

does he have any emotional issues with you or anyone else in his life?

men are like us. sometimes emotional distress could kill their sexdrive.

catlove

replied on February 25th, 2009

New User

I think there are too many issues that are unknowns. Sex is related to both body and mind and mostly outside our conscious control. Even he may not know why and what is going on. The most important thing is for you to NOT BLAME YOURSELF! And also the more you freak out the more will he. Stay calm and understanding. Provide him with emotional support and will see. Good luck.

clivi

replied on March 22nd, 2009

New User

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