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Q: boy problems

asked by: sweetiebabi on June 19th, 2009

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Hi i am 13 years old , my question is there is this boy i really love in school and i seem to be feeling more in love with him everyday . He always notices me and he does talk to me and sometimes he looks at me quite alot so kinda know that he likes me . But the problem is he doesnt seem to be taking it a bit further than this and he is one of the best looking boys in the school and all the girls surround him alot . But how can i say to him that i love him ? . from sweetibabixx inlove

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ServiceU

replied on June 28th, 2009

Supporter

your not in love with him your infatuated. that's not a bad thing. maybe it's good that you experience this so you will know the difference when you grow up.
you cant tell someone guy you dont know that you love him. being at that young age, he could tease you to his friends.

i've always been a women who felt as though the guy should be the one that approaches the women.
from your other post, i assume that this is the guy that you think about having sex with.

W0LF

replied on July 16th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Make a move. I realize at 13 the idea of approaching a boy is slightly more frightening than staring down the grim reaper. You don't have to do much. Bake some cookies or get some nice little thing for him, attach a love note and slip it to him in the hall with a grin, sometime when all his friends aren't around him so there's no pressure for him to act up.

bryant

replied on August 17th, 2009

New User

ServiceU wrote:

What are you saying...
That is the right way..

ServiceU

replied on September 4th, 2009

Supporter

Bryant,
There is a difference in infatuation and being in love. they both feel just as good. You fall in love with someone that you get to know them.
she doesnt know him she is highly attracted to him.

anyway, sweetiebabi, did you do anything about your crush?

sweetiebabi

replied on September 13th, 2009

New User

No i didnt now only because he turned big headed about himself . and he has a different girlfriend now . i guess im just not good form him Sad

W0LF

replied on September 13th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Think of it as he's not good enough for you. Next time don't wait on the boy you want. If he's in school he's not bright about girls. He doesn't have the confidence to come to you no matter how cute he thinks you are. Drop a note in his locker or follow him in to class and drop him a note as you pass his desk. You don't have to put yourself in vulnerable position to get noticed. Just write "I think you're cute" on a piece of paper and sign it and put it in his hands.

SOCFEL67

replied on October 31st, 2009

New User

I would take things a little slow and don't just come out and say you love him. That might make him feel uncomfortable because he might not be sure how he feels about you. Why don't you guys go to the movies together or something fun like that.

ServiceU

replied on October 31st, 2009

Supporter

he has a girlfriend already!!!!!

J3nnyuk

replied on November 1st, 2009

Moderator

maybe SOCFEL67 didnt read all the posts..

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