i have a friend who swings in between Bordeline and Narcissistic Personalities, it can be hard to watch at times. But don't worry
but you deserve a big pat on the back for facing your problems front on!
all i can really say by watching her, is learn to love yourself all the good and the bad, it is what makes you who you are. we all have our quirks its nothing to be ashamed
my personal spin on things is positive with my bipolar and psychotic depression. Is the fact when i go through my psychotic depression i get to see what others can only imagine! the things people can only ever see in movies

however i am still able to tell i am in reality when my visual disturbances happen.
but i wish the best of luck for you
and im sure if you keep on tract you will get it sorted
also if a psychologist says its impossible? ever thought of considering a different view of your mental state? or the therapy others may be able to offer that this person can't?