First, I can tell you that you will need a Pap smear...I was surprised about this too...This is probably true because there is tissue at the top of our vagina's and like everything else on our body is open to disease....As far as the bleeding when you are having sex, that is not normal...After this much time you should not be doing this....There is something wrong when this is happening...You will be sewn up after a Hysterectomy if your cervix is removed...If it wasn't you won't...This is why the bleeding that you are doing should not be happening...It should be a closed wound...

I hope this helps...I would definitely have this checked out...

Caroline