Hi
That's quite an operation you had. After or during the operation did you have an epidural? That would explain why right after surgery you had no sensation of your bladder being full. If you didn't is it possible they disturbed some nerves around the area?
I could see why you would be concerned giving that your parents had kidney failure. Is what they have or had hereditary? Do you have signs of kidney issues?
If your doctor still won't listen to you see another doctor? Are you going to a urologist now or are you being followed by the doctor who operated on your disc and bone?