Hey ladies. Has anyone ever had bladder prolaspe after birth? If so whats your story and how did you and your doctors handle it.

I had a week valve and bladder problems before baby. Surgery was a recommendation to fix my problems. But then I became pregnant and all treatment stopped. Well after the birth of my 1st baby I got bladder prolaspe. The anterior wall of my vagina is protruding at the opening. My previous bladder issues are now worse.

Since Im nursing medication is a problem. I cant take most of them. Surgery might also be out if I want more childern..which I do. The doc said the 1st repair is the best repair.

so im stuck and a little depressed. The doc said the possibilities of having a prolasped uterus after my 2nd child is high. This scares the crap out of. Now im worried about miscarriage or preterm labor. Are my risks really higher. Am I done having kids? Will my organs survive another birth. I always wanted a big family with at least 3-4 kids. Now I feel like my dream is smashed. Im ok with at least a daughter. Hubby and I are seriously considering only having one more since my body didnt handle the 1st one very well.

so im just looking for some input and maybe some encouragement. Just thinkinh about all this has me a little depressed. I feel cheated.

However im thankful to have experienced motherhood at least once.

thanks