An early HIV symptoms aren't usually genital ones, but, still that fact doesn't exclude your risk for HIV transmission.
Your symptoms of bladder pain or discomfort, along with frequent need to urinate, and penile discharge suggest an STD that has affected your urethra leading to urethritis.
Gonorrhea symptoms, usually, appear 2 to 5 days after possible infection through vaginal , anal and oral sex.
The penile discharge due to gonorrhea could be pus-like, white (cloudy) or clear.
All symptoms and discharge peak within two weeks of possible transmission.