I've been in therapy for about 3 1/2 years now. About two years ago I visited a psychopharmacologist and he diagnosed me with bipolar disorder. However, my boyfriend's mother is also bipolar, though it is rather severe, and I have to admit, some of her symptoms, such as extreme mania, are not present in me. I am now with a new pharmacologist, who also believes I have bipolar. My therapist on the other hand, believes I have depression. I am taking Abilify and Zoloft, which seem to be working, but I want to get one diagnosis. I used to feel frequently depressed, although I am prone to mood swings, but I have never had any of the more known signs of bipolar like extreme paranoia or believing I'm someone I'm not. Any thoughts?