Hello , I'm new to this site but my husband and I have been married for 2mos but we been together for 4yrs.He has never admitted to me being bipolor and I know I'm not a dr. or anything but trust me he is.When we first got together he was always in anger management because of his probation and now I can see why.Slightes little thing he will snapp and you can see it in his face that it even changes his look.Of coarse with him not admitting to it he's not taking anything but, he smokes weed everyday to calm him down.There's not a day that goes by he don't smoke and he seem so different when he does.His mood seem nicer when he is high which I hate to admitt.


Last year the job he had him and few of his co-workers had won the lottery.His share was $30,000 which was gone within month 1/2.He have nothing to show for it that you consider big other than xbox and summer clothes all wasted.Not only that he was stingy when he had the money.If you say anything or if he feels like he's hurt mentally about anything he will snapp and get violent.He says that's why he gets high because he knows that he will snapp and he don't want to hurt me.He got mad over something that his own grandmother said to him and he started acting like a big baby and hitting,throwing and punching furniture.


This is the one thing that is a problem now.I think he's easily taking advantage of.He had came accross an old high school girl friend on facebook.He's now 40 but he hasn't seen her since she was 15 and he was 18,well he for some reason thought he had a child with her so when he saw her on facebook he ask and I guess she told him they have a son.Now the boy is 23 now , he don't have my husband name or the mother , saw pics of him and her on facebook and myspace looks nothing like his mom and definatley not like my husband.My husband is brown skin and she's dominican dark and the boy is real light with red hair.I'm trying to wrap this up to get to the point but he recently sent this boy he has never met money into her bank acct,without ever having any kind of paternity test.I think in his mind because he have 2 young girls from a previous relationship and no boys that he want the boy to be his son so bad that he don't even think paternity is neccassary and the girl and her boyfriend may I add is playing on his weakness.What can we do he won't admitt he's bipolar so how can he get meds cuz the weed not lasting and it's costing us big time?