Yes it is. All of it. It is HELL. I have been through all this and more, as he changes his mind constantly,says he doesnt love me , behaves like he does love me, treats me like dirt, after blames his mood swings, does not want to let me go but when we are together he is cold, asks me to have patience with him but never changes,says the most beautiful things about me, how much he appreciates me, likes me, considers me, but treats me like if Im nothing for him.