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Q: Bicurious teen
asked by: jigglepiggle on July 2nd, 2009
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I am a 15 year old bicurious teen. My current crush is a female my own age. I am usually very outgoing when I approach males I like, but I find it difficult to flirt with girls. I'm guessing part of it is the fear of what others will think about me if I do. How can I find out if my current crush's orientation without being rude, socially immature, or etc. We are acquaintances.
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keochoa
replied on July 4th, 2009
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you can just ask her that you have a friend that likes her and your friend wanted to know if she was bi or les. but if she asks who is asking just tell hre its u if she is.. if u really are it will come naturally
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W0LF
replied on July 21st, 2009
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It sounds kind of sleazy but I'd test her comfort slowly. See if she'll dance with you without a guy. See if conversation derails after a while if a man walks by. See if she flinches if you hug, see how she responds to a kiss on the cheek when you hug her. See if she seems uncomfortable if you curl up against her when you're watching TV together. See if she's comfortable if you rest your head in her lap. Resistance or tension means she's either not open to intimacy with girls or just not attracted to you and it doesn't necessarily out you.
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keochoa
replied on July 31st, 2009
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very well said. but it does sound sorta sleazy. but hey if u really "like" her go for it. there are no gains without loses.
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W0LF
replied on July 31st, 2009
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At 15 there are some pretty horrible losses you face. When you get to college you can go for it like there's no tomorrow. But high school kids can make your life a living hell if you out yourself to the wrong person. I'd be nice and sneaky until you reach that place in your life where minds open up.
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keochoa
replied on August 1st, 2009
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true if people start crap. exuse the language. but nosy people start rumors worse than the truth! so if i were you i would stay quiet.. i really think u should at least for now... but is ur skool homo friendly or homophobic? that would really help to find out what u should do! so thnx
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