Unfortunately since I last posted my bi polar hubby up and left me dear john letter style 3 months after my mom died. then once he left I found out he had been using our bill money for drug money and stealing money out of our account for drugs. But he didn't stay to work things our or bother to even tell me. he just left and I have subsequently lost my house and struggled a lot because of his leaving. I have talked to him maybe 3 times since he left a year ago and he doesn’t understand why I get upset he left and says he still isn't attracted to me or anyone. the times he has called he says he is going to help me out but usually the next day his phone is shut off and I don't hear from him for another 3 months or so. Thank you all for your support it has really helped me.