Rolo your relationship with this lady does not sound too good at all.
I certainly would not be a hurry to marry her if I were you. That is if she does not change her mind again. I also notice that you do not mention that you love her.
First things first, is she really pregant?
The trouble is you have a vested interest in your growing child, if she is pregnant. Being Bulimic will not help the child, if she is partiulary bad, she is not only putting her life at risk but that of the baby. But I guess you would already know this.
Babies in the womb will take all they need from their mother. The problem being will the mother have sufficent nuitarments(sp) for the growing child? The anwser to that one I do not know.
You may like to contact her family again let them know your concerns. And maybe between you and her family you might be able to get her to a doctor, with the hope of her being treated.
Has she been professionally diagnosed with Bipolar? Is she or was she taking medication for it?
If not I would think that any mental diagnosis of her at this time re Bipolar, might be confused with the current symptoms of her bulimia.
She really needs to be seen by a doctor. The sooner the better. I hope that you and/or her family can get her to one.
Good Luck,
JennyRobin