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Q: Bi curious or lesbian or straight ?

asked by: cool_babe on September 21st, 2009

New User

I'm 18 years old...the story starts when i was 12 years old i was so attracted to a girl but never in a sexual way...I was just so fascinated by her personality and got inafatuated by her..that all stopped when i was about 16.I'm in a girls' school only, so i havent met alot of guys and i have never been attracted to a guy before.Is it because I dnt know enough of them or am i a lesbian?.I have never been attracted to a girl sexually.But I also never loved a guy and i had really dtrong love feelings for this girl though not sexual..what's up with me Very Happy

Replies(11)

J3nnyuk

replied on October 8th, 2009

Moderator

I dont think anything is wrong with you hunni, you just have been spending a lot of your time with girls, whereas if you were spending your time with boys am sure you would feel the same....Only if you feel sexually attracted to another woman should you consider that you might be a lesbian..Jenny

cool_babe

replied on October 9th, 2009

New User

Thank you

Thank you so much Jenny for your help Very Happy

ServiceU

replied on October 27th, 2009

Supporter

i think that you are still very young and finding out about yourself.
i was highly curious in my early twenties, but that phase has pasted i am now 33 y.o.
why dont you set up an account on myspace and try to have internet buddies.

stardancerkills

replied on November 1st, 2009

New User

sweetheart, there is nothing wrong with you at all. i just dont understand the desire to categorize urself. my friend is bi, hes attracted mjore to guys, however he is in love with my other friend nicole. then theres me who likes and always will like guys, but i like to have a little fun with gurls sometimes. whoever u have feelings for, go for it. but theres nothing wrong with you. who knows, she may have feelings for you too. : )

cool_babe

replied on November 2nd, 2009

New User

Thank you so much for ur care serviceU and stardancerkills.you guys have been very helpful =)

W0LF

replied on November 2nd, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Hey cool_babe
Gay Straight and Bisexual are sexual preferences. Right now you don't prefer sex with either gender. Don't feel that you have to rush into any of that stuff. When you're sexually attracted to someone it will be obvious to you.

cool_babe

replied on November 2nd, 2009

New User

Thank u Wolf sweety Very Happy

iloveerin

replied on November 2nd, 2009

New User

think you are fine all people have those feeling s

J3nnyuk

replied on November 2nd, 2009

Moderator

you're just trying to find yourself hun dont worry about it....jenny

cool_babe

replied on November 2nd, 2009

New User

Thanks for replying guys Jenny and the gentleman who loves erin Very Happy

...now I'm more relaxed and dnt have this need to label myself or anything..I'm jst gonna enjoy whatever my life throws to me Smile

J3nnyuk

replied on November 2nd, 2009

Moderator

Good attitude cool babe...Jenny

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