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Q: bff + bf
asked by: littlelindylou on June 5th, 2009
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k so i was in foster care a couple months back and i wasnt aloud to see my bf. My bestfriend Jane and my bfs little bro john and me are all right close. and she was always over there and when john would get mad at her she would go hang out with my bf. One night i called john on his cell and he told me how jane had gone up to my bf and asked if her pants looked hot on her. and he said " yah , there hot" and then she would ask him to feel her legs and he would. They spent alot of time together. I would hear them laughing when i was on the phone with john and it got me worried. Jane has slept with one of my other bestfriends xbf while they were still dating, so i dont know. My bf swears up and down that he hates her, and always has. and has never looked at her in that way . But sometimes when he walks in the room her eyes widen or hes not as lovey dovey when shes around.. is it possible , or doesnt sound like it could of cheated on me with her??
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hopeless_09
replied on June 5th, 2009
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That’s exactly how my ex acted when I thought he was cheating on me. Turns out...he was cheating on me. One of them times he did cheat was with my “best friend” as well. Im not saying he is and im not saying he isnt...but rather odd..wouldnt you say?....Good luck to you sweetie…
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littlelindylou
replied on June 5th, 2009
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thanks. i just really want to trust him and believe him, but i cant move forward with the relationship until i know. and when i ask her.. she says no i would never do that to you. and he says he wouldnt either. i dont know.
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hopeless_09
replied on June 6th, 2009
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I know its hard, but dont just ignore that gut feeling. I thought my ex would NEVER cheat on me, because he acted like I was everything he ever wanted, and I thought my best friend would never do that to me....but they did. Shes not going to admit it, if its true. Would you?
Id say keep an eye on both their actions when they are around each other...it should say a lot on whats going on behind the scenes. My ex always seemed very distant and ignored me when we were around cute girls or my friend. It sucks...but dont let them do this to you
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ServiceU
replied on June 8th, 2009
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i agree dont ignore that feeling, the way your telling the story sounds fishy, something is going on.
secondly, i only have one friend, i am very judgmental when it comes to the type of people i hang around. if i knew what she did in the past i wouldnt trust her around my man, so i wouldnt be her friend.
i had a g/f come over my house unannounced while my b/f was there, he lied and said i wasnt home and she tried to force her way in my house. so i stop talking to her.

some older women wont keep any women around there man untless theyre present. the majority of the women i know are very strick like that.
you had someone tell you the inapproperiate things he has said to your girlfriend, what other proof do you need. your not thinking with smarts, your thinking with your heart.
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