Role play...............remember when you were little, you could dress up and play a certain character? Works wonders! The possiblities are countless! This can go as far as having them meet you at a motel, or your own front door........just ring the bell!

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wat i did was i told my boyfriend write a fantasy of watever he wanted and a few days after i got the paper without him knowing i planned it and role played it was great!!! he had lots of fun!!!!

hmmm...sounds like fun...buy a little outfit and everything...i'm nervous about doing that sort of thing though i have noooo idea why...i've never even stripped in front of my bf before...he's asked me to, i just get sooooo nervous and shy for some reason..just having him stare at me and my body...i dunno..gah, i need to break out of my shell right?

ehhh...only problem with that is that the only fantasy my bf has told me about has involved getting another male..his fantasy is a mmf threesome..and, i'm just not really so into sharing myself with someone else and he hasn't mentioned anything other than that...thats a great idea though as a nice surprise..only for me i'd be asking for trouble with that one..because i already know the answer

i am also shy with my body! i have a bit of weight on me and i hate how my body looks at times you know you have ur good days and bad days and i havent been able to strip for him either...lol well about the threesome thing i dont know but asking of a fantasy he would like for you and him to do? talk to him sexy and get him into get in to it...you can always try or do it out of the blue and play doctor ur the nurse and hes the patient! and after that maybe he will like the idea of a you and him thing and not another male involved. keep us posted have fun with it!!! am sure you will my latest one was cops and robbers oh girl and my bf loved it!!! live it up!!! keep him on his toes and see how exiting he will get!

haha, i've ALWAYS wanted to dress as a naughty nurse I'm studying to be a nurse...just..suits me lol either that or a naughty waitress or something, he's in college to be a chef and i thought maybe that might be fun...i'm trying to spice things up and break out of my shell and i've told him some things I might like, like I would love for him to get really into it and make noises and stuff but...he isn't really cooperating...i've told him it would really turn me on if he did and...nothing

well if hes not taking action you do it! he will love you for it! imagine one nite out of nowhere he is layin in bed watchin tv and then you pop out with ur nurse outfit! boy he will be so exited he wud do anything you want!!! lol well if he lets himself have fun though. i hope for the best!!! tell him to keep an open mind

sorry to kill the mood, but anything besides roleplaying? We do that for fun once a month (not sexually, it's an outside game) so it's not that exciting. Plus I'm up for anything that gets his butt off the computer for more than 10 minutes...

WHIPPED CREAM
haha works miracles
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sorry just thought id throw that one out there
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I like to wake my husband up in the middle of the night...then, no talking, no light. It's kind of like role playing, I guess.

doing normal stuff just tease him all day with lil stuff of course make sure those lil stuff let him know what you mean though..it really gets you real hot! and ready for that biggg re veal after the day is done ,he'll have you on the mind all day

On night my honey came home from work and I was dressed to the nine's. Black dress/heels/.... hair and make-up. He stood at the door stunned. Said are we going somewhere. "yes" Do I need to get dressed up.... "no". Proceded to take him to a hotel in the city. He said it felt like that movie Pretty Woman. yeah, he was calling me a hooker LOL but in a nice way. We got room service and ended up having a great night together!
The best part was I used Priceline negotiator and ended up paying less than half price for the room. : )

haha you sound like you're advertisting for priceline..that really sounds like a great idea and I wish I could do that buuuuuut...i'm in college and still living with the rents..and they have this whole "while youre in my house you abide by my rules"....so...no going out and not coming back that night or they'd have a fit oh i cannot wait to graduate and get my own place...haha...but that does sound like a great night

whipped cream sounds good too

oh yeah... I remember those days : ) That can def. put a damper on things. How bout meeting somewhere...... an ex and I used to fool around alot in the back of some industrial park.... oh my god I just remembered. One night he had a blanket and some pillows in his car and we ended up "hanging out" on top of box truck that was parked. It was really pretty with the stars and all. And just enough of a hint of fear to make it even more exciting.

LOL... nope, don't work for priceline LOL

And the whipcream bikini is always a winner.

For me and my bf it's the massaging oil that is lightly scented.

If he's studying to be a chef- why not have a food fantasy night? Whipped cream is obvious-- but there's so much more you could do with that. What does he like to eat? Champagne does wonderful things in a woman's mouth when she's also got "him" in her mouth lol. Remember that scene in the sex and the city movie with samantha and the sushi? Be creative!! Raid your pantry and find anything that looks fun! Anything you could put on an ice cream sundae, including cherries lol, fruit, or anything else that seems good at the time.

Otherwise- I have before and will again recommend games. Like strip poker, strip mariokart (maybe that's just me lol) gets him excited, or a game like "A Hot Affair" which you HAVE to buy! It's really exciting and intimate and sexy and kinky and everything all at the same time.

Plus, it will give you lots more ideas.

Go to an adult store together, even if all you do is look around. Maybe buy something if it sparks your fancy.

That's all I got

hahaha that reminds me of a funny experience we had...i'd been away at college and we were long distance before I transferred...so one weekend when i came home on a break we decided to go to the park late one night....things were just gettin steamy in the back seat when this huge truck drives up and shines the bright lights in the back seat of my car..we just sat there like two deer in headlights...the truck stayed for at least a minute or two just shining his lights in we had no idea what he was doing...anyway...he drove off and a motorcycle(which we later realized was a park supervisor) drove by...by the time the truck pulled away I'd jumped in the front seat and headed for the entrance....where the gate had been CLOSED and LOCKED....crap...how am i going to explain getting locked in a park to my parents at 11:30 when its pitch dark! I seriously considered going off roading in my little car..only trees were in the way haha...then we hear the motorcycle coming up, we were trying to think of excuses to tell him but thankfully didn't have to..he drove right by us, stopped at the entrance and unlocked and opened the gate for us...i was flipping out at the time but i laugh at it now....that was the boyfriends genious idea to go to a park that late at night...we laugh now everytime we drive by that place

Hmm i really like the food fantasy idea...and maybe i'm crazy but i've never watched sex in the city so you gotta clue me in on the sushi thing! AND..i'm glad you mentioned champagne because I JUST bought some yesterday soooooo I'm thinkin maybe that might be a good idea ...the card thing sounds good too...we play rummy alot but strip poker would be interesting...i've never played...explain what "a hot affair" is..i'd like to know haha

"A Hot Affair" is a board game you'd have to buy, but it's worth it!

The sushi thing in sex and the city- samantha made sushi, got naked, and laid on the table with the sushi placed on her breasts, down her stomach, and on her pelvis. She waited for her boyfriend to get home this way so her could have dinner when he got home (and more!).

It didn't end well in the movie, they had a fight, but good idea nonetheless!!