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Q: Believing Something That Wasn't Really There
asked by: XxXSADGiRLxXx on July 7th, 2008
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I was with my fiancee for 2 1/2 years. Everything was going good and it was so romantic. So I thought. Just recently i was forced to live with him. Becuase I found out i was pregnant. My family was disgraced of me so I had To Leave. I had to leave Arizona to California. And on the way to California my "fiancee" told me he didn't want to have a relationship with me. I was so hurt and fell into confusion. I couldn't underdstand why. There I was feeling all stupid into thinking "oh we are gonna be one happy family." About 3 weeks ago he just admitted to me the reason for him getting into the car accient the pervious year is because he was on his way to see another "girl". That Disgusted me so bad. I litteraly want me to CHOKE him.He has lied to me and has made me feel like he only wanted me for sex. he treats me like crap.I don't treat him bad. I cook and clean and even do his laundry. I even walk 5 blocks down the street for grocries and I'm six months pregnant.I'm tired of being around him. But i have no friends nor family to turn to.I have no money what so ever. What should i do. I need Advice please HELP me.

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This experience has made me hate men so much and makes me feel like never trying to have another relationship.This has brought me seft esteem so low. as if i have no existance. men answer me tis question. WHY DO YOU LIE AND CHEAT? WHY CAN'T YOU BE FAITHFUL. i dont understan. please explain tat to me.
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Fairy Godmother
replied on July 7th, 2008
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Hi Sweetie! Me Fairy*Godmother
Hi Sweetie, I am so sorry this has happend to you. First and formost..not all men are alike. It took me 3 tries to find my wonderful husband. I raised a daughter on my own up until she was 10. There is someone out there who will appreciate you and love you and this baby. You are in California? Can you get call and make an appointment with a case worker @ Family and Childrens Services there? Explain to them you are alone. Your boyfriend has deserted you. You have no family or friends to turn too. They will help you to get back on your feet. Also, there are several churches (I know there are here) that help women in your situation. Some men are DOGS......there is no explanation. You just happened to pick one and he has abused you. You are going for regualr doctor visits (ther are free clinics)? You may talk to one of the nurses/practioners here about your options. Keep us posted!
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Beline
replied on July 10th, 2008
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Fairy*Godmother’s right, Sadgirl. I know you are hurting and what your fiancé did is inexcusable, but you need to hang in there. It is possible to take care of your little boy by yourself until you meet someone that will love you both. There are respectable men out there. I found one after my third try too.
Your son already has a great mother (and he’s not even born yet!), and I believe that soon enough he will have a great father too. Not many men will let a chance go by to get to know a beautiful, caring young lady like yourself.

Good luck to you, Sweetie.
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pizzadude
replied on August 27th, 2008
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Hi, yeah...just remember this...your baby is going to look up to you, you are going to be a tye of role model for him, like the others have said, hang in there and you know, there is only one reason why we are all here, it's because we can't get passed the mount everest's of our problems, that why we need to turn to strangers because someone has been there...in your situation, so just be that special someone that suceeds in findind hapiness and be a great role model mamma!

Peace!

we are all here to help, and we are all here if you need to talk.
Bye!
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Sukki
replied on September 12th, 2008
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Yeah, they are right..dont give up!! ^^
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