I lost my virginity when i was 18 in a sexual assault. Now i am 22 and am gonna get married next year.
I didnt have sex with anyone in the interim except for masturbating with a single finger seldom.
Each time it is tight and i wonder, if i practice abstinence, i would be super tight like a virgin that i really want to be. I would be proud if my husband struggles to do that with me for the first time.
Tightness does not have anything to do with virginity. Normally you will loose your tightness after the birth of a baby (or from fisting).
You need to exercise your PC muscles. Look on the interwebs for 'Kegal Exercises'. That will provide more tone and tightness and do your sex life the world of good. Kegals are what you do when you pee and want to stop. You squeeze your PC muscles.