I am very concerned about this sugery. Like most women, I was not told that it would be so bad. I asked whatever questions I could think of but not what I needed to since I had very little knowledge about bartholins.
I woulk like to know why are they treating this stuff so lightly when it is sooooo painful and complicated?
When will the pain stop?
Why do they say the down time is one day when they know this take so long to heal?
Why did they leave wholes open?
Will those wholes close?
Will I have permanent scars?
How will this surgery affect my sex life?
When will I be able to have intercourse again?
When will the stiches come off?