It is possible to cause damage to your anus, but I think that's only if you do it a lot.
If you're not comfortable doing it, then don't

thanks,but would you tell me how many times it is okay?I mean how many times in week or month I can do it and be sure not damage my anus?

I dont really know the number, but the most hubby and I have done it was about once a week maybe 5 times a month and I havent had any bad affects. I think it depends on what you do...like if you have rough anal sex and if you use dildos or toys on a regular basis. I know you can stretch it out A LOT if you want to. I guess just try and see what keeps you comfortable. I cant do it every day or else I will get a little sore so we usually wait a couple days to do it again.

There are ways to avoid any risks of anal sex but things need to be taken very slow. Injury happens when a penis is repeatedly inserted through a contracted sphincter, which then causes tears. The more tears you have the higher your risks for incontinence (which, isn't really that common).

So before you start make sure you have lube, condoms, and if fingers are involved then make sure the nails are clipped. When you start make sure you apply lube to both the penis and anus. When he enters have him go slowly and right when you start to feel discomfort then have him stop but not pull out. Within 30 seconds or so your muscles will tire out and relax. After that you should be good.

Try a position where you're on top so you can control it a little better and after you get the muscles to relax then you can do other positions.

It's not really dangerous but if you had any problems with your anus in the past I would not recommend anal sex. Buy a good anal lube and thin condoms (I'd recommend Durex extra sensitive condoms, they have never let me down). I would not recommend position on top, try laying on your stomach first it's much easier, in my opinion.

If you don't feel comfortable don't do it, it is something you have to want for yourself, a suggestion try a small toy first if you dont enjoy it dont do it, its your choice to make.

Thank you all very much.

i personnal like anal sex. But like some of the other people have said u have to feel comfortable with it. I never thought i would like it, but once we tryd it, i enjoyd it. I have found the best postition for me is doggy style, lots of lube and my fiance always fingers it first then we do it. I wish you the best of luck with it.

With anal sex, condoms and lube are a must. Make sure he starts out slow... very slow ; it can, and probably will hurt the first time. The best thing I can say is to relax because if you tense up he will not be able to insert it comfortably inside of you. I know from experience.
If you switch to vaginal, change condoms, you can get infections.

some guys aim to damage the girl's anus because they want her to feel sore the next day, its a domination thing. in this case, often the penetration is sudden and sometimes the penetration is repeated several times where the penis is pulled out and shoved beck in again. this feels great for the guy because the anus is really tight as the beginning, and it will probably damage the sphincter. if the anal sex is hard, the girl will have a sore anus sometimes for days and may not be able to walk straight, which is the aim for some guys. often the girl is drunk when this happens, and she will wake up with a hangover and a sore anus.

The above poster was very honest in what he just said...This is the action of some male species with an unsuspecting female in this position...You know caveman....Hopefully a girl/woman is reading his post and will be more prepared for this vicious attack on her...I know of a woman who had this done to her...This was after her boyfriend had been watching some Porn...He had a few drinks which must have given him in his eyes, a more macho male image...He tore her badly...She was 37 years old...I would say that any girl/woman that allows this, make sure he knows the rules and takes it easy....

yes deifantely...any sexual experimentation should be done on a sober basis...anal sex is something very private. Its in a way sacred to men and women and hopefully not something thats painful and scary

But this happens a lot. I was accidentaly penetrated by an ex...he played it off like he didnt mean to...it was a horrible feeling for me.

what happens if u have anal sex without lube and a condom? what r the side effects? please tell me i am just 20 and a virgin

Gals..why are you at this madness of having sex that way.Anus is NOT MEANT to be for that purpose.So,leave it alone and function for what its maded for.God has blessed all men n women with perticular shape..so that they FIT into eachother.Why do unnatural things and risk ourselves? And rememberno matter which way we do it...its always the female who's at risk of suffering those tears or pains or injuries.

All good for you to say that, but it is your opinion. I am sure that the penis may very well be meant for the vagina, but I am also sure that there are MANY women who do not orgasm from vaginal sex, sometimes even clitoral sex. If a woman likes the feeling from anal sex, then she has the RIGHT to have anal sex. Sex is meant to FEEL good. And if anal sex feels good, go for it. Just be sure to take it slow and use lube. And if it is not your cup of tea, then don't do it.

lol.May be u r right.i cant say much bout it as m not xperienced one .But i just wonder bout those women..how do they reach orgasm even with anal sex then..is there anyway in anal sex to stimulate the clitoris? or that a women can reach orgasm w/o even clitoris being stimulated at all

I have a ?...I tried anal sex for the first time today and I didnt let my boyfriend put it all the way in bc it hurt so bad... ne ways after we finished i felt very uncomfortable and now i have this ball down there, which i didnt have prior to having anal sex..Does anyone know what it is and has anyone else ever had this experience?

I can't get off on anal sex either. But a LOT of women don't even orgasm with oral or vaginal sex. The body is a mystery. But yes, women can have vaginal orgasms (does not involve the clitoris) so if you can have a vaginal orgasm, I guess its possible to have an anal orgasm...ah the good ol' mysterious body.

A ball? Like internal or external? If it is external, then it could be swelling or a hemorrhoid. Even internal it could be a hemorrhoid. Or, maybe fecal matter that is impacted. If I were you, I would check with my doctor. Also, if anal sex does not feel good to you, don't do it. Especially if it causes you pain.