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replied May 25th, 2009
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I don't know if this will be considered a bad blow job: if a girl refuses to take my cum in her mouth, I consider that is a bad blow job. and she must use her tongue on the head and shaft of my penis as well.
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replied December 26th, 2012
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My wife would give me blowjobs but she would not let me cum in her mouth. I enjoyed her giving me great blowjobs because my penis felt great by her tongue. I don't consider her blowjobs as bad because I enjoyed her giving me blowjobs. When she gave me blowjobs I would pull my penis out of her mouth when I was getting ready to cum. Then I would cum after I pulled it out. My wife did not want to taste cum.
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replied May 26th, 2009
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Theres not just a simple answer to the question everyone prefers different things.
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replied May 29th, 2009
To be honest everyone is different but for me a bad blow job is no effort being put in, and generally this is the same with all sexual acts, men will get aroused as long as they can see effort is being put into the job at hand.

But when it comes to blow jobs definitely avoid the teeth!
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replied April 8th, 2011
A perfect Blow-Job
A perfect Blow-Job is one which the giver uses their tongue and lips around the head, using their tongue around the shaft, and going as deep down as possible, down to the pubes is ideal, and sucking. If the giver doesn�¢ï¿½ï¿½t suck, it can be really boring. Use the hardest sucking when you want him to finally cum. You will get a blast of cum and he will be moaning with pleasure.
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replied May 29th, 2009
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a male friend told me a long time ago that a man can have an orgasm off of a bad blow job.
and being a women i want to know what's a bad blow job. in my mind it seem pretty cut and dry.

then again i guess it's like when a guy perform oral sex on a women. some guys are really good at it, and some arent.
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replied May 29th, 2009
The fact that your concerned about how well you give a blow job for me shows you are willing to put the effort in to make it work and yes a man can have a orgasm off a bad blow job, just depends how aroused he is and how long it has been since he last came, the longer the more likely for ejaculation.
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replied May 29th, 2009
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actually my b/f gives me four stars. even though i feel like i dont know what i m doing.

i watch porn and one women gets the whole thing shoved down her throat, but another women only consentrate on the head and using her hand to masturbate the guy.
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replied May 29th, 2009
Re: Bad blow job ?
ServiceU wrote:
what's a bad blow job



i would like to know what you guys think is a bad blow job and what you think is a good blow job and what really gets you going?
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replied May 29th, 2009
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Just consentrate on the head, and use your hand as you pleases him. Taking his cum in your mouth is not a must if you uses your mouth and hand right, but it is an added pleasure to him if you receives his load on your face, and/or in your mouth.
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replied May 30th, 2009
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lol, hey i am a guy and i can tell you exactly what a bad blow job is.

are you ready... its when you dont get one at all TADA

the first time or two it really wont matter. but if it becomes a regular occurance, what ever makes him cum the quickest will probably be the one that you should use. just keep changing it up, otherwise he will get used to it and not care. also speed can count. normally though he will set the speed for you
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replied May 31st, 2009
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men, if you think of two ex girlfriends, and the way both of them gave you a blow job. what makes one girlfriend better than the other. does she suck harder, she has more experience, she has bigger lips, she's freakier, she loves doing it.
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replied June 1st, 2009
Ex girlfriend 1: She loves doing it and and doesn't mind where she does it, she would pull my trousers down just about anywhere (alley ways, swimming pool, etc etc etc... too many places to list "good times!")made it far more exciting and especially because we could get caught. She would also rub the perineum (the bit between anus and testicles) which would feel damn good and make me more aroused/ ejaculate longer and harder, she had big lips but no real routine with how she did things other than the fact that she would always swallow, kinda mixed it up but generally she was all around amazing at blow jobs.

Ex girlfriend 2: Was more sensual and slow, kinda made love to my penis with her mouth also had big lips but spent allot more time paying attention to the tip of my penis with her hand and tongue, also tickling the balls. She always made out she was enjoying what she was doing but was more a discrete kinda gal so it was kept mostly to the bedroom but she still always swallowed.

Overall out of the above I would go with ex girlfriend 1 as being the best, she kept things exciting it's not necessarily she was the better technique wise just that she was the more fun in how she went about it.

You also mentioned about deepthroating, I have never been deepthroated before so I couldn't comment but it is definitely a huge turn on to watch in porn! I'm over average in size so this may be why the average gal hasn't attempted to give me one although the porn stars would eat me whole, I would suggest learning this technique if you haven't already!
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replied June 4th, 2009
A bad blowjob, eh?

I'd have to agree with Thoumas, Not getting one is definitely a horrible one. I would figure most guys would just love the fact of getting their dick sucked, I know I love mine getting sucked by my girlfriend.

She is my first and my only and she is very passionate about everything she does with me. We've been going for 11 months just about coming up in 14 days. What usually gets me off is a little bit of it all. When she licks the shaft it feels great, same thing with the balls, I like it when she uses her teeth but very LIGHTLY, emphasis on lightly, huge emphasis on lightly, she rarely deep throats because she can't really do it but she'll always try once or twice in a while, and when she does do it without gagging it feels incredible, also I love it when she swallows (which is always) and plays with it with her tongue (sometimes), really gets me off again. Sorry for being so damn descriptive but I hope it helps you out ServiceU. Good Luck, have fun, and let your imagination run wild. Bringing food like chocolate syrup and whipped cream also adds some fun and excitement to it too.
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replied June 15th, 2009
there is no such thing as a bad blowjob..
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replied June 15th, 2009
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this is such a thing as a bad blow job
Norah76 wrote:
there is no such thing as a bad blowjob..


only a man can answer that. as one of my messages previous stated a GUY told me that men can have an orgams off a bad blow job, so that's why i created this forum to ask MEN what do they feel is a bad blow job.

there's no such thing as a bad blow job is not true. as with women, when a guy performs oral on us, some guys know what theyre doing, and some guys don't.
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replied June 15th, 2009
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I learned how to give oral sex well by learning from past mistakes. A bad bj (or hand job) is an overly dry, rough/ overeager one, or one where a woman scrapes the penis with her teeth none too gently. Another way to kill a good bj is by stopping or slowing down just as a man is about to orgasm- this can go either way, actually. Stopping then starting again can either be deliciously frustrating or simply frustrating. It just depends on how close he is to ejaculation.
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replied June 15th, 2009
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i like what male27 said
one thing i do which is a no-no is talk while giving a blow job. my b/f travels so i really miss him when i see him, and i have so much to say while i m giving him a blow job. so i think im going to stop doing that.
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replied June 18th, 2009
I think for any guy, having their girlfriend give them a blowjob is pretty much a good blowjob. To make it an amazing blowjob though thats the secret;)

I personally believe im good, and love giving them to someone i'm in a relationship with, comfortable and you know is special to me. I take my time, i know what im doing and overall im not horny unless he is enjoying it. Watching the look on his face turns me on major.

Id also say communication is a major key, every guy is different so ask him what he likes and dont be afraid to go for it, at the end of the day he did ask so why would he not appreciate you trying?

Oral sex is just as amazing as sex, 69ers are brill.
You cant wack it!Wink
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replied July 11th, 2009
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ServiceU wrote:
...i watch porn and one women gets the whole thing shoved down her throat, but another women only consentrate on the head and using her hand to masturbate the guy.


I can deepthroat probably about 75% of the time, drives my bf wild but not my ex. then again my ex was a loser. my bf has told me that he likes having just the head focused on as well but from his reactions, i dunno if thats true... it was also way back before our relationship had progressed to even just oral, and his ex(who he was with 7 years) couldn't do it so who knows. I'll send him a text later when hes up and ask again.



my impression(as in, if I had a penis) I think i would enjoy being deepthroated more than just being jerked off into a chicks mouth(thats what it looks like to me in porn)
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replied September 21st, 2009
I think a good blowjob is one that she wants to do. If she is just doing it because it makes you happy, it won't be good for either one of you. From a pure clinical stand, a bad one would be one that is incomplete, one that involves biting or one that she calls you by some other guys name.
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