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Q: Baby's father sending mixed messages

asked by: enchantedone83 on December 27th, 2008

New User

I met this guy and i got pregnant the first time we were intimate with each other.
When i gave him the news he was really happy and told me he wanted to be part of the baby's life, he wanted to be a dad, that he wasnt ready but he wanted the baby.

So we made a mutual decision to continue the pregnancy.2 weeks after the news he even bought me a train ticket back to his place so we can spend the weekend together.( we live about 4 hours from each other).we were even talking about him moving to my city etc ...

Then when i got back to where i lived ... he left for work to NY ... he stopped returning my calls .. answering his phone .. or calling me .. but he would talk to me via MSN off and on ...

I finally left him a messege to call me about the paternity test he wanted which could be done .. he did return my call and basically said he would be coming to my city next month for the test. he didnt even call me for xmas ...

Why am i getting all these mixed signals ... what's going on with him???

Replies(2)

kyrafaith

replied on December 28th, 2008

Supporter

Hun all you gotta remember is guys are jerks. My babys dad decided he was going to make things work and all that and then he completely vanished on me. It could be because hes doubting the paternity, but that still doesnt give him the right to act like a creep. My babys dad wants a paternity test, which he has no right to doubt because I was living with him when i got pregnant. Anyway, the other reason could just be that he really isnt ready to be a dad and thinks that leaving will make it go away. Just go on and do what is best for you and your son. Let this guy go because your child and you dont need the added stress from this guy. I ended up finding this guy that loves me and my son and has been with me since I was just a few months along. Youll find someone that loves you and your son unconditionally, just be patient. Good luck! === Kyra

enchantedone83

replied on December 28th, 2008

New User

thank you very much ... everyone says he's scared and confused and he'll come around .. but i guess ill have to wait and see ..

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