Relationships and Marriage Forum - b.f wasn't cheating on me...

well it started a month ago. some of you already read how my boyfriend wouldnt even talk to me after our big fight last month. so fast forward a bit.. things slowly start getting better even after the whole hotel insident (he booked a hotel for his friend and his girl who got kicked out of their house. he didnt tell me about it, i saw the email and i thought he had booked a room to go with another woman)

needless to say that got cleared up. he had booked the room for his friend. his best friend even verified hes done that for him too. so it WAS my boyfriend just doing them the favor. anyways 3 days ago some girl send me a myspace message saying that my boyfriend hurt her sister, that he stayed with her at hotels and that they spent nights together.

i laughed because i swear to you guys that for the past 2 years that we have been together he has come home every single nite. so i knew she was lying. it got worst because she knows my home address somehow. our car is hidelously dirty and cluttered lol we have tons of our mail scattered around and i do remember he gave his best friends FRIEND a ride to the train station. this girl was the one that he had ignored when she had tried time after time to get with him. my boyfriends best friend knows shes been trying to hook up with him and that my guy had rejected her. but he will not leave me alone, i even had to cancel my page because of her.

i told her things between me and my boyfriend wouldnt be so good right now if he HAD cheated on me. our relationship is unbelievably good. even hes noticed were happier and that things are getting better. any input would be greatly appreciated guys thanx Smile

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rooted

replied on November 19th, 2008

Supporter

THat's wonderful news. I'm glad that it worked out for you and that you feel closer to your boyfriend now.

Fayle

replied on November 19th, 2008

New User

Its nice to find a happy thread on here, its the first I've seen.

Congratulaitons and I wish you a llong life and happiness with your boyfriend.

CoolGlassofH2O

replied on November 22nd, 2008

Experienced User

thank you guys, it took such a big toll on us. I had even called the hotel and in my anger I thought the voice was his. I was already telling him to leave that we were thru but he explained things. and I believe him because it says that the chek in time for the hotel was at 1pm. he had left for the city around 130pm.the confirmation email was sent to him at 330pm. its always sent 15min after the transaction is made. so needless to say he was already in the city with his friends. plus theres a fee when you chek in late..and his bank statements don't show any late fees for anything.

im still puzzled at how she got that information. even the hotel number. but I did clean out the car of any mail we had in there. and I found a napkin with the hotel address and confirmation number. I asked him about it but he can't remember writing anything down. but its his writing so he must have wrote it down before calling his friend and giving him the info.

I didn't notice any of the signs like primpin up a lot more, taking care of his appearance. etc. no weird transactions on his card etc. no weird smells, hickeys, scrattches, etc. and if he was messing around like she says they would have been bugging him too. calling him, bugging him, etc but I didn't notice anything like that. and he did tell his friend to tell them to stop so that proved it wasn't true.

he did tell his best friend so maybe he blabbed about it. but I did find out thru his friend that she had been trying to get at him but I guess he blew her off or either dragged her along and then blew her off. (some times guys play some stupid games) and that's why she was hurt. so her sister must have tried getting even with him thru me.

so yea...I believe he didn't do anything cause if he had hed be feeling remorsful, it would be eating away at his concious,hed still be acting distant and angry, id see weird transactions in his bank statements, etc. but he's the total opposite. im so happy things worked out

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